21 Ağustos 2013 Çarşamba

Importance of Feedback

Why is feedback important?

People need feedback. Most people don't see themselves as others see them. For this reason, they often don't understand the impact their actions have on others. They have "blind spots." For example, people don't always know when their work is appreciated, and they aren’t always sure when they’re causing problems. Even well intentioned and hard-working people rely on ingrained patterns for success. Because they aren’t always conscious of what comes naturally, they may be the only ones who don't know that they’re adversely affecting the performance of their group.

Performance improvement.
 Feedback is essential to learning. If people don't fully appreciate their strengths, how can they use them to their advantage? If they aren't sure how their actions create problems, how will they know what to change, and will they have the motivation to improve?

Motivation. People who take a professional attitude toward their work want feedback. They want to know what’s working and what isn't. They want to know if managers are pleased with their performance. They want to contribute to solutions, not be the cause of problems. They don't like having blind spots, and they want to know how to improve. They’re willing to invest in themselves to achieve better results, because they know this will increase their value in the career marketplace.

The challenge. As valuable and as desirable as it is, constructive feedback is not a regular occurrence in most workplaces. The most common reasons:
• They usually find it uncomfortable to confront each other about performance issues.
• Most people aren’t sure how to give feedback effectively.
• Very few people like accepting negative feedback.

                                                                                                                       http://360fyi.blogspot.com

Respecting Authority is...


Trust?


14 Ağustos 2013 Çarşamba

Empathy


Empathy
you don't have empathy because you do not understand...





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simple and easy to understand to empathy






5 Ağustos 2013 Pazartesi

Talking Stick and Empathic Listening


Dr Stephen R Covey and Talking Stick


an instrument of aboriginal democracy used by many tribes..

it may be passed around a group or used only by leaders as a symbol of their authority and right to speak in public..

whoever holds the talking stick has within his hands the sacred power of words..





22 Temmuz 2013 Pazartesi

Positive Psychology

      "Scientific works which researches mankind's positive states of mind." This is my own definition after I read some articles.


      "Positive Psychology is the scientific study of the strengths and virtues that enable individuals and communities to thrive. The field is founded on the belief that people want to lead meaningful and fulfilling lives, to cultivate what is best within themselves, and to enhance their experiences of love, work, and play." And this is more professional type of describe which exist on Penn website






                           Shawn Achor is an American educator, author, and speaker known for his advocacy                                  of positive psychology. Achor spent ten years teaching at Harvard University, where his "Happiness" course became one of the most popular courses on campus.

 Spotlight: Big Think, Question and Answer

Question: What is positive psychology? 

Shawn Achor: Positive psychology is a movement in social psychology which attempts to change the way that we think about humans.  Instead of focusing merely the average, which is what we normally do in traditional psychology, we would find out what the average person is like, or how the average person responds.  Instead, what we look at are people who are up above the curve for some given dimension.  Maybe that means that they are extremely energetic, that they are very happy, they’re very productive.  And our goal is to find out why that is.  

Question: How is this different than self-help?

Shawn Achor: I think a lot of the self-help movement is based around people who have a great idea where they think that some things worked out very well for them and they try to press that upon other people.  And sometimes that advice can be very helpful and very sound, but what we’re interested in studying in positive psychology is what’s actually going on inside the human brain.  What happens to an individual if they took that advice?  

footnote: I took some part from article. I advice you to read whole chapter from Big Think website.

3 Temmuz 2013 Çarşamba

First Touch

   This journey will be very interesting for us. Normally we used to midterms, finals, assignments and this type of boring stuff. And we are getting experience a new kind of practice: BLOG!

   As I said in the class yesterday, I took this course because of whispers among our mates. "It is a wonderful course! Only you attend the classes and you pass!", " There is no final exam, can you believe it?" These type of gossips are very widespread in our campus.

Giuseppe Totino
  Who is Giuseppe Totino?

- He is introducing himself as a Professional Certified Coach.
- He is also interesting Positive Psychology.
- I understand that Giuseppe regards communication among people.
- His fluid English is supported with his likeable Italian accent.
- He use his body language very influental.
( I wonder his favorite football team in Italy, I guess A.S. Roma...)

I get some informations from his official website and I tried to write my impressions from Tuesday lecture.

Why I dislike the concept of "professional coaching and training"?

First; I cannot accept one people shape another one. Free will is extremely important for me. Of course supporting someone is substantial but not professionally.
Secondly;Personal Development books are everywhere in our country. Maybe this circumstance create some bias against "professional coaching and training concept".
Thirdly; I believe people should interest literature, music, theatre, sports, politics etc. These are fact of life. People should develop and chart out by himself.

   I wonder end of this course and my opinions. Either my opinions would not change or Giuseppe  would change my mind. 

"IT'S A BEATIFUL DAY AND I CAN'T SEE IT"


  We watched a video which is very   meaningful and related with communication and demonstrate different perspective.


  • Discovering the power of transforming your own word.
  • This is very powerful marketing
What do you think?

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This is my first experience and hopefully I told my story in a comprehensible way. Thank you for your patience.